When I first arrived, I was thinking in dollars, not in pesos, so, I just kept comparing the cost with things in the USA instead of comparing it with what the real rates might be. For example, if the taxi ride was 213 pesos, I would sometimes give 500 pesos thinking well, in the USA this would have cost me three times as much so let me just give him a huge tip. When shopping I would sometimes be well aware of the skin tax on an item and even though I was being ripped off I would say well, it is still cheap compared to the USA. Even in the first condo that I moved into I overpaid because I again compared it with what I used to spend for rent in the USA. Well, after about 90 days or so I started converting my mind to think in pesos and not compare everything to the USA, and all of a sudden, my expenses went way down. So, when you come out here try not to think about your currency, ask people what is an appropriate tip, and ask how much you should be paying for a condo in the city you decide to settle in. Ask locals or foreigners that have lived here to make sure you know where to buy your fresh fruit and veggies or clothes or whatever. Think in pesos!
I absolutely love this realistic view on being the new guy. Thank you for saving me time and money!
Thank you
Good advise on both fronts, location & ladies. As far as travel and finding a landing pad goes, I do the same thing. Short term hotel, AirBnB or whatever till I get a “lay of the land” for 4 or 5 days. During that time i’m researching what areas have the things that are of interest to me and go for a visit or walk around. When I find a place I try to do an AirBnB for 30 days, that’s where your best discounts are. As far as women go, NEVER move her in, in a heartbeat. If you find a winner within a few minutes of landing it’s nothing short of a miracle, ( which I wouldn’t rely on ). If you move her in without “really” ( ? ) knowing her , it could be like putting your hand inside a hornets nest. Use the head on your shoulders, not the other one….. ( I too have been guilty of “choosing unwisely” )…….
Gio……excellent advice! I’m formulating a plan to permanently move to the Philippines within two years. I was there back in the 1970’s and have dreamed about going back. I’m well aware that is a totally different country now but, I’m sure the people haven’t changed all that much. All the information on your website has been helpful in starting and organizing my plan and goals. Thanks again!!
You’re very welcome